Speak with Structure
Clear talking isn't a talent — it's a shape. Open cleanly, carry one real point, close with the ask. Here are the shapes worth knowing, plus a rebuilder for when your thought comes out tangled.
Rebuild a messy thought
Say it however it comes out — tangled, hedgy, too long. Get back a clear, confident version with the shape labeled.
The frameworks
PREP
Any opinion, update, or answer on the spot.
- 1Point — Say your conclusion first.
- 2Reason — One reason it's true.
- 3Example — A concrete instance.
- 4Point — Restate it to land it.
We should push the launch a week. (Point) The onboarding flow still fails on mobile. (Reason) Yesterday two testers got stuck at sign-up. (Example) So — one more week and we ship it right. (Point)
Outcome → Support → Ask
Asking for something: a decision, a resource, a yes.
- 1Outcome — The result you want, up front.
- 2Support — The reason it's worth it.
- 3Ask — The specific, clear request.
I want us to hit the deadline without burning out the team. (Outcome) We're two people short for the scope. (Support) Can we either add one contractor or cut the reporting feature? (Ask)
STAR
Interviews — telling a story about your impact.
- 1Situation — Set the scene briefly.
- 2Task — What you were responsible for.
- 3Action — What YOU specifically did.
- 4Result — The measurable outcome.
Our churn spiked 15%. (Situation) I owned finding out why. (Task) I ran exit interviews and rebuilt onboarding. (Action) Churn dropped back to 4% in two months. (Result)
Acknowledge → State → Redirect
Conflict, pushback, or holding a boundary.
- 1Acknowledge — Show you heard them.
- 2State — Your position, plainly.
- 3Redirect — Point to the way forward.
I get that this is frustrating and you needed it sooner. (Acknowledge) I'm not able to redo it by tonight. (State) I can have it right by tomorrow noon — does that work? (Redirect)
Reusable pieces
Steal these. Tap any to hear it.
how to get in
how to carry the middle
how to land or ask
